Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Sh*tty Week

December 16, 2009

I am tired.  My head aches.  I am sad.

So far, the most difficult challenge is to remain cheerful. I feel like a clown - wearing a mask that hides what I truly feel inside.  Interior cheerfulness is very difficult to maintain.  Why Lord of all problems did you give me this one?

Ate was hardly responsive today.  She gave me a few half or rather quarter smiles today at Kindermusik during the Hop Up song.  It is probably the motion that she enjoys when I lift her up.  When it was time to sing the song "You are My Sunshine" I didn't sing it because I didn't want to cry in public again.  I knew I'd feel shi*tty.

I find there are so many things to do that could help her.  Physical Therapy, Kindermusik, Mozart Sonata K488, Mozart Concerto K488, a lot of hugging and kissing and talking to her, a lot of breastmilk.  I need to give her as much breastmilk as I can because that is the highest source of brain food.  Even that simple task I find difficult because .... I tire easily.  I have to keep up with her sleeping hours.

I feel I have no time to socialize for myself.  Not that I am complaining.  I wouldn't mind giving up my alone time if only she could just smile at me.

I wish I had other problems.  I prayed to the Lord to show me my path to heaven.  Now I find myself praying for an alternative path.  Sh*t.  This has yet been a sh*tty week.  Simbang gabi has started and I just can't feel Christmas coming.

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